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RichardBens14
03-26-2024, 03:33 PM
Hello all.

This might be a long story so bare with me...

Two weeks ago I invited an Escort to my house for the first time in my life, she was good looking and had a nice personality and I paid her to stay for only 3 hours, we were intimate and had sex. A week later I invited her to my house again for 4 hours but this time we were so into each other she stayed all night without any extra money and I asked her out on a date and she accepted and she invited me to her house (as a date not a client) on the Wednesday. When she went home at 7am we continued to text each other saying that she couldn't wait to see me again and that she'll have to meet my mum. Bare in mind guys we mutually developed feelings for each other. As the days go on she starts to become more and more distant complaining that shes not well which is actually the truth btw and she tells me not to come to hers on the Wednesday cos shes not well enough and shes lost her voice so no fone calls. We rearrange for me to go to hers next Wednesday (as dates btw) and she agrees, but again she becoming even more distant to a point where shes not returning my text messages. Whats going on with this girl guys? I dont want to keep texting her or call her as I don't want to come across as desperate or creepy, why would she agree to stay at my house all night without any extra money, say she likes me and agrees to date me and then be like this? Help appreciated!

EDIT: She even tells me her real name, and sends me pics of her kids via whatsapp, all kinds of personal info which is a big no no for an Escort.

I need to talk about this to someone like my family or friends cos its really tearing me up but its too embarrassing cos shes an Escort.

DeanPaladin
03-26-2024, 03:35 PM
It seems like you already know the likely outcome and are hoping for something else.

Sucks to be lonely, but sucks even more to be jerked around. Dont get your feelings involved with prostitutes; it never ends well. I would recommend you completely stop seeing her and talking to her.

careocerebro
03-26-2024, 03:37 PM
I get that this is a tough situation for you. It seems like you really like this person, even though she's an escort. It's important to talk openly with her about how you feel, but also to understand her boundaries and decisions.
However, suggesting she quit her job and taking full responsibility for her might not be the best approach. Ultimately, she needs to make choices that are right for her own well-being. I recently came across an article by a dating coach that shares some insightful tips on transforming your love life. It might offer some valuable insights during this challenging time: https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/austin-dating-coach-shares-6-keys-transform-your-love-smith-cwegc/ (https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/austin-dating-coach-shares-6-keys-transform-your-love-smith-cwegc)